Welcome to SUCCESSnotsabotage — a business dedicated to ending the sabotage in your life so that you can be sent to serve others with a powerful overcoming message.

General George S. Patton said it best.

Nobody ever defended anything successfully, there is only attack and attack and attack some more. If you want to be used in the kingdom of God to transform other people’s lives, you’re going to have to be comfortable with staying in an assertive mindset and not backing down from any challenges in your life.

Growing up I always enjoyed writing. My father encouraged me to major in Communications when I was in college because he recognized my aptitude at an early age.  My Dad and my Grandfather were entrepreneur’s and influencers in their generation. This is Pa-Pa with Mickey Rooney who he coached in Golf when he worked at the country club.  This hung in my dad’s office at Jimmy Bryson’s Cocktail Lounge in Miami Springs, Florida.


Growing up a first born in our family gave me a great desire to emulate the both of them in many ways but the reluctance for to become an entrepreneur was spiritual in the beginning. Both of them were alcoholics, so it made me second guess the price I was willing to pay for financial success and ownership of my own vision.

Many people have had similar experiences  to launch a ministry or business but don’t want to get a theology degree.  Feeling a spiritual “call to business”  but not really knowing what to do with it.

This gap in where you feel you currently are in your leadership and where you want to grow to can create an identity crisis. There is a serious lack of training on how to lead others successfully, whether in your home or in your business, if you have grown up under addiction based or fear based thinking.

SUCCESS not sabotage seeks to fill this void and offer’s an alternative to those who want to grow leadership and even follower’s out of their own testimony so it glorifies God rather than under someone’s else name and success. This is crucial for those who want to grow real authority rather than lead through positional titles.

SUCESSnotsabotage is a community about helping you build your leadership on a daily basis and then develop the simple strategies from a business perspective to grow profitably.  We help you build your spiritual life and the leadership that messengers need to be an expert at coaching others into success.

We seek to connect your past sabotages into current success by breaking down step by step how to create an epic identity, herd your “content cats”, communicate consistently with those who need your message and aim for an end goal of helping you reach people globally with video’s, coaching systems and books that change people’s lives.

Ultimately, SUCCESSnot sabotage wants to help you take back what the enemy has stolen from you and your family and turn it into a glorious transferable inheritance for the glory of God.

Our Founder And Team

Becky And Jay Harmon

Becky founded SUCCESSnotsabotage in 2007 after an Identity theft for almost a million dollars. Since then she has grown into an international coaching business. Her Bold Physical Identity system was highlighted by Senator Judd Nelson as a character contributing program.

Becky grew up in Miami Springs, Florida and attended Florida State University and received her BS in Criminology. She took 12 years off from working to homeschool and church plant with Everynation.org. After being a top sales person for a medical device company and doing TV commercials for a leading identity company,  she launched SUCCESSnotsabotage. Jay and Becky have been married 30 years and have four children who live in the Atlanta area.



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